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The mystery of pleasure

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December 28.10.18 Pm Luminessa Enjara

What brings us pleasure and turns us on is a mystery that is a continually unfolding for each of us.

Pleasure is something that has as many faces as the stars in the night sky. To understand what “turns you on,” what gives your body pleasure, is something that requires an enquiring and open mind. Giving pleasure to your beloved is an honor and an opportunity to discover something new and to awaken in them something that they have never experienced before. Receiving pleasure is equally an honor. And it is an art to learn how to fully be present and open to receive the gifts of our lover's touch, kiss, gaze and heart.

The art of giving pleasure begins in our brain. Our ability to feel aroused is triggered when our brain gets the message to release neurotransmitters such as dopamine and oxytocin. But what gives pleasure to one woman or man may not be the same for another. The key to understanding the pleasure game is to be truly committed to the exploration rather than the end result. In tantra, you are always in the moment, allowing the energy of that moment to guide you. Whether you are the one giving or receiving pleasure being in the moment with your lover’s touch or kiss and fully giving yourself over to that caress or kiss is the key to fully embracing the pleasure that is being offered to you.

Taking the time to get to know what your partner likes, asking for feedback and giving permission for them to ask for anything they want is one way to open the door to learning more about how to pleasure your partner.

Allow your time with your beloved to unfold and use your hands as if they were your eyes. Pleasure is something that can also be cultivated and need not be hurried. Build your partner’s energy slowly. Tease them by playing with their energy. And watch for the signs of arousal. With men it is obvious, but for women it is less so. Women’s bodies are more subtle in their responsiveness. But if you are observant you will notice that her skin may have a flush to it, or she may be breathing faster. If she moans or sighs this too is her way of letting you know she is enjoying all that you are doing and receiving the pleasure you are giving her.

Remembering what your partner likes is a good thing, but remembering to also try new things will keep it exciting and fun. Being inventive and daring can also provide new ways to play. Pleasure can be enhanced through music or by sharing a sexy dance or through a delicious dish that awakens all your taste buds. Introducing exotic scents and using different textures such as silk, fur and feathers to tease each other are also ways to increase bringing pleasure to your lover.

Whenever you think you know all there is to know about what turns your partner on, then try something new. And remember to have a beginner's mind when you are with your lover, as if it were the first time. Allow the mystery of pleasure to unfold once again.

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